Today, I’m joined by Ian Kerner, a renowned sex therapist, best-selling author, and expert in helping individuals and couples navigate intimacy challenges. You might know him from his book She Comes First—a must-read on prioritizing women's pleasure. Ian is also the co-founder of the Sex Therapy Program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy and a sought-after speaker at TED, Goop, and more.

In this episode, we dive into how heterosexual men can become more attuned to their partner’s pleasure, shifting focus from performance to connection.

We talked about:

Why did he write a book in 2004 to help men better understand women's pleasure?Oral sex and more pleasure for womenWhat has changed in heterosexual men’s approach to sexuality since he wrote "She Comes First" in 2004?A relax penis is an erect penis!The 'willingness window'The areas that men still need to improve when it comes to heterosexual intimacyAnd much more!

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iankerner.com

She comes first

So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love Lives

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Erscheinungs­datum: 8.4.2025, 08:46:14